Monday, January 5, 2009

My award from Brittany


This blog invests and believes the PROXIMITY - nearness in space, time and relationships! These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in prizes or self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers! Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award."
My picks are: Brenda
Barbara
Peggy
Shirla
Kath
T.
BJ (blessed with 4)
mind of a mom
Thank You Brittany for thinking of me, you are a sweetheart:)
Im going to make some phone calls today about getting out of my lease early, I actually did niot sign a lease for this unit, he forgot. I need to find out if my old lease automatically transfered to my new unit. Even after I sent the " kiss butt" e-mail to just try and smooth things over he still replied with an ugly threatening response. I just ignore him now and am writing everything down. When he offered me this position back in April we hesitated and thought on it for a day. We knew better, we lived walking on egg shells because he plays on the role of being "in control". I am looking at another unit in this same complex today, I know it is smaller and not nearly as nice as mine but I cant handle the stress and the uncertainty of not knowing if he will come home and evict us ot not resign the lease. Finding someone that will accept all of our animals will be a challenge. This is what happens when you screw up the first have of your adult life and you dont own a home:( This other owner will take our pets, if we move there it would just be temporary. Im also worried that the 3 1/2 years of living here will turn into a bad reference. I just want to go back to being a simple tenant. Im allowing him to have to much space in my head and I have to stop that.
My son is home with a fever today and I know I need to go to the laundry mat and do some house work, I had little girls all weekend:( Thanks for all the encouraging words and feedback:) Have a happy Monday

7 comments:

Blessed With 4 said...

Oh Dana you are soooo sweet ((((((Dana))))))
Thank you so much. I value your friendship so much and I have enjoyed the time we have spent together (in blogland).
I pray that God would lead you to a nice place to live and it would be all you had hoped for.
Blessings and hugs, BJ

Blessed With 4 said...

Sorry...I forgot to put after (in blogland) I look forward to the time ahead and future posts :) You are a nice friend.

Celticspirit said...

Thank you for the lovely award. :)

As for the devil....oops I mean landlord, I think it's a good idea if you were to move from there. You are doing the right thing in writing things down as well. Is there a police report from that night he had the hookers up there? I'd me making a file of everything I could find on this man in case he does try to give you a bad reference. You will have something to show what his character is like. It sounds to me like this man is just using you because if he's in trouble with the law over that incident, maybe he can't show his face around there. KWIM?

The Mind of a Mom said...

Oh Dana

Thank you so much that was so kind!
Things will work out with the appt! Landlord might be a jerk but but remember what goes around comes around and he will get his in the end!
Hang in there!

Sharon said...

Oh Dana, you are going through so much. I will pray for you sweetie. KNow that the Lord is bigger than all of this and He careth for you. Please try to keep the faith and be encouraged, I am sure this will all work out for His good. I pray it will all turn out wonderful for you.

God bless you,

Sharon

Kathi said...

I agree with Celticspirit, Keep a file of everything including emails. I will pray that this man will not be allowed to harm your character and give a bad reference. Hugs, Kathi

troutbirder said...

well deserved award.
Congratulations!